Monday, January 27, 2014

7 Ways to Swim Fearlessly in 2014

Is fear holding you back from achieving your potential in the pool? Here are 7 tips to swim fearlessly in 2014.

By Olivier Poirier-Leroy

I’m afraid of an assortment of things. Rejection. Regrets. My Wi-Fi dropping.

Some people are scared of the usual stuff – the dark, spiders, snakes and so on. But there are other, less obvious forms of fear that manifest themselves within swimmers. Less subtle. Hiding under the cloak of denial. Fear of success, fear of failure, the fear of expanding our limits.

WHY DO WE GET SCARED WITH OUR SWIMMING?

Fear hits us from a bunch of different angles. Some obvious, some of them so hidden and sneaky that we don’t really realize their existence or impact until we sit down with them.

  • Fear of racing our heart out and coming up short.
  • Fear of looking “slow” or inferior in front of other swimmers, coaches and your parents.
  • Fear of not being in control.
  • Fear of disappointing ourselves, as well as our loved ones and teammates.
  • Fear of going beyond our comfort zone and challenging ourselves to heights we only sort of consider ourselves capable of.

I admit, the article title was a little misleading. The goal isn’t to swim or live completely without fear. That’s like saying we should not get nervous before our races. If we’re not nervous, we’re not invested, and if we’re not invested then what’s the point, right?

The goal with these tips isn’t so much to eliminate fear, but rather manage them so that they don’t dictate our swimming. Here goes–

1. Identify Them. This can be tricky. Some swimmers will instinctively pound their chest and say, “I’m never scared.” (Hello, denial!) Once we acknowledge the fear, realize why we are feeling that way, we can begin to respond to it in a manner that isn’t purely based in emotion. Take a few moments and write‘em out. (I’ll wait here.) Putting them to paper stops the pin-balling thoughts in your head from running loose. Seeing those fears in ink and shedding light on them generally renders them moot.

2. What is the worst that could happen? When you take a moment to actually sit down and fully consider the worst case scenario you begin to see the cracks in fear’s reasoning. Got DQ’d in your best race of the meet? Your family still loves ya, you’re still a swimming machine, and there will be more races in the future. In other words, life will go on.

3. Consider the Odds. Here’s a little something you may not fully realize about yourself. Out of all the doomsday scenarios you’ve concocted in your mind, how many of them have actually come true? Out of the dozens, hundreds or thousands of stinky situations your mind imagined, how many of them actually happened? A couple? Probably even less than that. It should be a comfort knowing that we are actually quite terrible at predicting terrible outcomes. The next time fear rears it’s ugly face remember that an over-whelming proportion of them will never come to pass.

4. Accept unpredictability. As much as we love to think we are in utter control, there are some limits. As much as I want to be Batman, it’s just not in the cards. Do what you can with what you have, and forget the things you don’t have control of. Easier said than done, but embracing the unpredictability of life will allow you to focus on the things you do have control over.

5. Risk vs Reward. The cost of not acting, of not swimming your brains out, should be higher than your dooms-day scenario. In other words, understanding that the pain of regret outweighs giving a full effort should motivate you to follow the path that would result in less pain or disappointment.

6. Trust yourself. Think back to the last time something truly awful happened with your swimming. The morning your goggles filled up and you missed a AAA cut by 4/100’s. Leaving early on the take over that would have won your team the meet. The time your suit fell around your knees off the start and you swam the first 50 metres bare-butted. How long did it take you to get over these things? A couple weeks? A few days? Hours or minutes, even? (Though I’m sure you still get ribbed for the 50m bare-butt.)

7. Unshackle yo’self with action. Setting daily, weekly challenges or benchmarks that are designed to push you past your self-imposed limitations and boundaries will help lessen the grip that fear has on you. Fear is designed to keep you in place, from not moving, from not acting.

Olivier Poirier-Leroy is a former national level swimmer based out of Victoria, BC. In feeding his passion for swimming, he has developed YourSwimBook, a powerful log book and goal setting guide made specifically for swimmers. Join 1,800 of your fellow swimmers and coaches and sign up for the YourSwimBook newsletter (free) and get weekly motivational tips by clicking here.

Thursday, January 9, 2014

ABCS OF MENTAL TRAINING: Z IS FOR ZEN THINKING

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I am not a Zen Master by any means, but back in the day I read "Sacred Hoops" by Phil Jackson and got hooked on Zen philosophy. Books exist relating just about any topic to Zen teachings. This article is not meant to be a lesson on Zen. The purpose of this article is to present an approach I sometimes take with clients who have trouble letting go of thoughts or accepting the challenges they face.

There Is No Try
The great Yoda once said, "Do or do not. There is no try." I have worked with more swimmers than I dare to count who finish a race with gas left in the tank. One thing many of these swimmers have in common is an UNCONSCIOUS fear, typically of pain, sometimes of either failure or success. This fear holds them back from fully committing. Instead they often hope or wish, rather than going all-in. Whether it's a new event, an attempt to set a record, or pushing your body beyond what is comfortable, at some point in your swimming career you have to say "I will do it". No hesitation, no what-ifs, just a complete stubbornness to make something happen. Zen is about trusting and doing.

Go With the Flow
There is a sport psychology concept known as “flow,” also often referred to as "being in the zone." This is the rare occasion when you swim and finish a race with a remarkable time and have no idea how you got it or what you were thinking. It just happened, and it happened easily. To achieve this type of performance, you can't actually try not to think. Instead, you have to literally go with the flow; have a plan for what you want to happen, and don't second guess it. Dive in and swim. Typically, the moment people realize they are swimming “out of their mind,” and are on track for a PR is the moment when they leave the flow state of mind. This doesn’t always hurt their time, but it just removes you from that Zen-like experience.

Accept and Release
If you've ever taken yoga, instructors often teach you to focus on your breath or the muscle you are working. Zen thinking is very similar. Basically, if you have a thought that is irrelevant to your race/practice or detrimental to your performance, you don't judge it or dwell on it, you accept it as simply a thought and then let it pass quickly through your mind, returning your focus to the task at hand. For example, if you say to yourself, "What if I don't win? These other swimmers are just as good as I am," you wouldn't want to follow that by thinking, "Why am I thinking that?!?! I should be confident!! Maybe I really won't win. What would others say?...". Instead, you simply accept you had a thought, imagine it departing from your head, and focus on your breath/race/clear your mind. Don't give thoughts extra energy unless you want them to stick around.

Connections and Togetherness
Zen followers often believe we are connected to everything else in the universe and that we have shared energy. Think about it. If your coach is in a bad mood, doesn’t that impact you in some way? If someone swims a better time than you, it impacts what lane you will be in and (if you weren’t mentally tough) could impact your confidence. While the Zen concept of universality is much more philosophical than my simple take on it, I believe that recognizing how your behaviors, thoughts, and emotions influence others is an important awareness to have. When you know that coming to practice with a strong work ethic and an optimistic attitude can positively impact those you train with, you may choose to work even harder. This ultimately has a positive impact on you as well. If you are a leader, you are more likely to behave in ways that will help teammates compete their best so that you also will reap the benefits of raising the bar.

Zen and Peak Performance
In Zen, the ego is lost. There is no judgment. There is no aversion to losing or desire to win. You do not compete as a means to an end. You immerse yourself in an experience and simply have whatever that experience may be. Many swimmers have such a fear of losing to someone they shouldn’t that their ego gets in the way. They unknowingly handicap themselves from performing their best because they focus so much on the outcome they create anxiety. In a Zen state of mind, the focus wouldn’t be on, “what will happen at the end of the race and how will that outcome reflect on me?” Instead, your thoughts would be in the present moment and focused on doing what you have trained to do. It’s a combination of everything I have mentioned. You go with the flow, you trust that your training and your preparation will pay off, you let things happen, and you stay positive. Instead of trying harder, you actually try easier because you essentially allow your peak performance to happen. It’s not that you don’t want success; it’s just that you don’t put energy into thinking about it as you are on the blocks. A Zen-minded swimmer would define success as diving in, swimming and letting your mind tell your body what to do without you having to direct it.

Wrap Up
Like I said, I am no Zen master. This is just how I like to interpret very simply some of what I know about the philosophical nature of Zen. I love the idea of being passionate but not allowing the passion to override the experience. I love the idea of wanting something, but not forcing it to happen. What I love most about Zen is the thought of trust in yourself and enjoying each moment you are engaged in your activity.

I hope you have enjoyed my ABC’s of Mental Training series. If there are other topics or specific questions I haven’t addressed, feel free to contact me. I need some new article ideas!!

Make it great!
Dr. Aimee

Aimee C. Kimball, PhD is a Mental Training and Peak Performance Consultant in Pittsburgh, PA. She is an Association of Applied Sport Psychology Certified Consultant, a member of USA Swimming Sports Medicine Task Force, and a member of the USOC Sports Psychology Registry. Dr. Kimball works with athletes at all levels to achieve success in sport and life. For more information contact: AimeeKimball@aol.com; www.aimeekimball.com.

Reposted from usaswimming.org